Making delights from others miss fortunes is not as good as making delights from love. Love resembles everything that is apparent that love is delightful to those that yearn it. However, we must first learn what love is, not in the sexual term but in wanting to be with another being. Lust can be a deadly sin, but only in when we feel and know that we want to spend our lives with that one is it a good thing.
Delights will come from love as it is the only way to go.
